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Dating For Marriage
Our coaching program for successful single women: a step-by-step formula, weekly live coaching and a sisterhood of women who want what you want.
See if I'm a fitFor successful single women who want marriage
You've built a life you're proud of. Now meet the man to share it with.
The career, the friends, the life you worked for. Love is the one part that hasn't come together yet. We're Matt & Kelley Cama, a married couple and the coaches behind Dating For Marriage, and we help women like you meet quality men and build a relationship that leads to marriage.
Real women. Real love stories.
See how they met him โ
"I am now in a safe and nourishing relationship for the first time in almost 10 years. And all of this has happened in just 3 months." Bethany D.
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Where are you in your love life right now?
Pick the one that fits. Each is built for exactly where you are.
Want to learn first
Free live workshop
The dating plan to meet, date and marry your future husband, and why you haven't met him yet.
Save my free seatDating someone
Is he the one?
Know for sure before you give him another year. Our free Compatibility Checklist covers the areas that matter most for marriage.
Get the free checklistHealing from a breakup
Heal From Heartbreak
Let go of the pain, get closure without needing him, and open your heart again to the right man.
Get free accessHear it from them
Real women. Their own words.
Press play on any of these to hear what changed for them.
"That was the best investment I've ever made in my life. I met my husband because of it."
Jonnemarie
"I just didn't believe that I was going to find anybody."
Rugi
"Whatever your difficulties are: emotional, time, money, language - go for it!"
Amina, Clinical Psychologist
"The rewards are just astounding. It's worth it."
Erica E.
Success stories
From "same man, different face" to real, committed love
10 years of unhealthy patterns โ married
"I met my absolute dream partner. I feel so safe, seen, heard, respected and loved."
Jonnemarie
Heartbreak โ a marriage-minded man
How not compromising her standards got her the love she wanted
Ashanti went from heartbreak to a relationship with an emotionally available, marriage-minded man, even while living on a tiny island with a limited dating pool.
Ashanti
19 years without a relationship โ now exclusive
"He meets all my non-negotiables and truly a lot of preferences as well."
Jenn M.
Our method
The Formula To Finding Love
Most help only fixes one side: therapy heals but doesn't teach you to date, and dating tips get you dates but repeat the same pattern. We do both, in five steps.
- HealRelease what's been choosing for you.
- ClarifyKnow exactly who you're looking for.
- DateA clear plan to meet men who want marriage.
- EmbodyShow up as the woman he's drawn to commit to.
- CreateBuild a relationship that leads to marriage.
StrategyThe formula step by step, plus a personal action plan.
CoachingLive group coaching every week and personal guidance.
AccountabilityA sisterhood of women who share your faith.
Your first step
A complimentary Love Life Audit
One call to get clear on your love life. Together, we'll look at three things:
- Where you are nowAn honest look at your dating life, your patterns, and what's been happening so far.
- Where you want to beThe relationship, marriage and family you're praying for.
- The Love Blocks keeping you stuckThe hidden beliefs and patterns standing between you and the man you'll marry.
Either way, you leave with clarity on what's been holding you back. No pressure, no gimmicks.
Your coaches
Hi, we're Matt & Kelley
Relationships weren't always easy for either of us. Before we met, we were both stuck in unhealthy cycles, wondering how to have the love we really wanted. We worked with coaches, tried just about every healing approach out there, and learned what actually works.
In November 2020, an Instagram DM turned into a first date. Today we're married and parents. As a Christian couple, we coach from both sides: Kelley brings the feminine perspective, and Matt shows you how a masculine, marriage-minded man actually thinks.
Common questions
What women ask us most
If I hire support, am I not trusting God?
Many women in our community wrestled with this. Trusting God and taking faithful action go together. You'd hire a coach for your health or your career. Getting wise counsel for the most important relationship of your life is stewardship, not doubt.
I'm in my 40s (or older). Is it too late?
No. Most women we work with are in their 30s and 40s, and we've seen women find love at every age. Colleen found love again after a 22-year marriage ended.
I've never really dated. Is this for me?
Yes. Many of our clients start with zero dating experience. Tina had never been in a relationship before she found the love of her life.
I think I need to do more healing before I'm ready.
Healing is step one of the formula, so you'll do it inside the program with support. Many women join right after a breakup or divorce. You don't have to be "finished" to start.
I'm so busy with my career. Do I have time?
It takes about 3 hours a week, and calls have replays. Most women find it saves time, because they stop spending evenings on dates and apps that go nowhere.
How much does it cost? Do you have payment plans?
It depends on the level of support that's right for you, so we go over it on your Love Life Audit. Payment plans are available.
Free every week
Learn with us for free
YouTubeWeekly videos on dating, discernment and becoming the woman he commits to.Watch on YouTube โ
The Matt & Kelley ShowOur podcast on faith-driven dating and relationships.Listen on Apple Podcasts โ
InstagramDaily encouragement, client wins and real talk about dating.Follow @datingformarriage โ
Your marriage isn't going to happen by accident
Find out what's been holding you back on a complimentary Love Life Audit. No pressure, no gimmicks.
