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10 years of unhealthy patterns → married nearly 3 years

“The healthiest, most fulfilling relationship I've ever been a part of.”

“I was stuck in a cycle of unhealthy attachments that had spanned over a decade, jumping from one guy to another. I was already having huge breakthroughs on the first call. The knowledge, strength and confidence I built kept guiding me, and I met my absolute dream partner. I feel so safe, seen, heard, respected and loved.”

Exhausted dating at 44 → in love within 3 months

“I am now in a safe & nourishing relationship for the first time in almost 10 years!”

After going on hundreds of dates, Bethany felt exhausted and hopeless about love. At 44, she worried she was running out of time.

“And it has all of the things that I have always wanted that I never thought was possible for me before this program. And all of this has happened in just 3 months since the program! I feel seen and heard, I know how to make him feel seen and heard and we’re both happy, relaxed, in love and committed. It feels amazing. I am so so grateful for the work we did inside this program.”

Bethany D.Dating For Marriage member

Hung up on a situationship → in a relationship

“I had the courage to say: this is what I want.”

“When I joined, I was still hung up on a guy I'd had a situationship with. I discovered my values and what I wouldn't compromise on, and that helped me move on. When I used the dating framework, shortly after, I was in a relationship.”

Giving too much → the most loving relationship

“I am bursting with confidence and I am living and loving my life.”

“After years of giving too much in relationships, of struggling to set boundaries and not knowing how to put myself first, I felt fearful of starting again in case I ended up in the same situation. This was such a supportive container within which I learned about slow dating and getting clear on my desires. With the encouragement of this program, I found the courage to put myself out there again, to give love and myself another chance! Now I’m almost 5 months into the most beautiful, wild, fun, sexy, honest, limitless, loving relationship… all of me is welcome!”

Grace C.Dating For Marriage member

19 years without a relationship → now exclusive

“He meets all my non-negotiables and truly a lot of preferences as well.”

“I haven't been in a relationship in 19 years. I hadn't learned how to date well or do it in a biblical way. After just a few months of learning so much from the recordings and the modules, I met this man. He prayed for me, sent me scripture verses to meditate on, checked on me every day, and was just truly incredible. We are now exclusive.”

Didn't believe she'd find anybody → in a relationship

“The proof is in the pudding!”

“I knew that I had a lot of childhood trauma that I needed to deal with, and I wanted to feel positive about dating again.

I didn’t believe I was going to find anybody, and I knew I needed to do some deep work.

Then I found this amazing coaching program with Matt & Kelley.

Their whole program is so good. I did therapy on the side, but this is so different.

Getting coached is life-changing!

I really worked on healing past traumas that are affecting how I date today.

I then met somebody, we started dating, and I am now in a relationship with him.

The proof is in the pudding! I really recommend this course”

Close to giving up → matched and in love

“I struggle finding the words to describe how unbelievably happy we are.”

“To be honest, I was getting close to accepting that I would not be able to share the win of finding my partner any time soon. Then on one of the coaching calls, another member shared how letting go of some of her preferences helped her meet her partner. So I made slightly different choices when swiping on Bumble, and this is how we matched. He is such an amazing man, he cares for me in a way I never thought was possible, and we are grateful for each other every day. I wouldn't be here today without all of you.”

Anxious attachment → self-worth and strong boundaries

“LIFE CHANGING EXPERIENCE!”

“Before beginning the program I had all the symptoms of a text book anxious attachment. I was attracting similar partners with a different face every few months, my boundaries were all over the place with friends, family, and work and I was so uncomfortable with not having some kind of male attention. This program has restructured how I think, I have gained so much self-worth, set some strong boundaries with people around me, dug deep into my shadow and I finally am super comfortable with being truly alone (this is a big win as I have never been truly single my whole adult life. I am no longer seeking outside validation from others to feel worthy of love. I would and have recommended this program to everyone I know.”

AmyAustralia

Never dated → confident to date

“This program gave me the foundation and confidence to date!”

“I never dated before and I held myself back so much. I had no idea how to even start. But this program gave me foundation and confidence to date!”

ArianaUSA

Out of a 14-year marriage → in a loving relationship

“I finally feel hope and excitement about the future!”

“Before starting this program, I felt stuck from coming out of a 14-year relationship/marriage and I didn't know how to finally release it, properly heal and move on.

In this program I learned so much about myself, about what I want and what I don't want in a man/relationship; how to create, set and follow through with boundaries; how to heal my inner child and forgive myself for all that had happened in the past; and to finally feel hope and excitement about the future!”

A psychologist who thought coaching was BS

“I'm a clinical psychologist and I always believed coaching was BS. That was a false belief.”

“Whatever your difficulties are: emotional, time, money, language - go for it!”

"I doubt I will learn anything life-changing"

“WELL the whole course has been life changing.”

“I thought I have already been doing a lot of work on myself, I doubt I will learn anything life-changing in this program.

I never ever expected to see changes within myself so fast. My relationship with myself has gotten so much better and it’s really beautiful to see & feel. The supportive community in the program has felt a bit like family and I was so excited for every call. This was definitely the best thing I have done for myself.”

Worried about the money

“It is worth every penny. It is worth the financial risk.”

“The main concern for me is always financial. Knowing that it's a risk and maybe I'm not in the best spot financially to do it.

The rewards are just astounding. It's worth it.

You don't know until do it. You realize that it is worth every penny. It is worth taking the financial risk.”

Nervous about the group

“I am a new woman because of this course.”

“The group environment made me nervous at the start but after just one week I was so impressed with the beautiful personalities who shared a similar interest in growing and healing. You really feel so understood and comfortable with the group.”

Hyper-independent → letting someone in

Before working with us, Ashley said she was hyper-independent and afraid to let someone into her life because she was so accustomed to taking care of herself. She also had unhealed trauma that was affecting her love life. After completing the program, she sent us this message: