any of these
SOUND FAMILIAR?
YOU WANT SOMEONE WHO YOU CAN DO LIFE WITH
But every time you look around, it feels almost impossible to find him — like all the good men are either taken, unavailable, or not looking for the same future you are.
YOUR INSECURITIES WON’T BE QUIET
The voice in your head sometimes yells things at you like: You're too old! You're too picky! You're not as pretty as the other girls. You've missed your chance. If he really knew me, he wouldn't like me. Â
YOU’VE DONE THE WORK… BUT SOMETHING’S STILL MISSING
You’ve read the books. You’ve journaled. You’ve done therapy and healing work. You even understand your patterns. But for some reason, your love life isn't the way you want it to be.
What if meeting your future husband didn’t have to feel so hard, confusing, or discouraging?
What if dating could actually feel clear, hopeful, and even exciting again?
Imagine being with a man who loves and cherishes you exactly as you are.
A man who stands with you in the hard times and celebrates with you in the good.
A man who goes out of his way to make sure you feel safe, wanted, and like you truly matter.
That’s not just a nice idea, it’s possible.
And it’s exactly why we created Frequency of Love.
This mentorship program is designed to guide single women like you to:
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Uncover and release the unconscious patterns that keep you stuck.
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Heal past wounds so you stop repeating the same cycles.
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Build the confidence and feminine presence that makes you magnetic.
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Develop real dating and relationship skills so you can create lasting love.
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Surround yourself with women who are on the same journey and cheering you on every step of the way.
You don’t have to keep doing this alone.
With the right guidance and support, you can create the love story and family you’ve always wanted.
In short, we’ll show you how to meet your future husband, date with confidence, and create a lifelong marriage built on God’s design for love.
FREQUENCY OF LOVEÂ
How it works in 3 simple steps:
Step One
You chat with us or one of our team members to ensure you're a good fit for our transformative 4-month Frequency of Love program.
Step Two
You get on a short call where we walk you through our program and answer any questions you have before we start.
Step Three
You join and instantly get access to our online course, plus weekly coaching with us to get support through any challenges you're having in your love life.
how this program
ISÂ DIFFERENT
⇨ We are a married couple and parents who bring both the feminine and masculine perspective into dating, relationships, and family life.
⇨ We are Christian and every part of this program is grounded in biblical principles and values rather than new age principles or pop psychology.
⇨ We give you both the inner work and the outer strategy. Most programs only teach one or the other. Here, you will heal past wounds and learn practical dating skills you can apply right away.
⇨ We do not stop at dating. This program prepares you not only to meet your future husband but also to navigate the early stages of building a Christ-centered relationship and marriage that lasts.
⇨ We combine community, group coaching, and personalized 1:1 support. You will never feel alone, and you will always have guidance tailored to your unique journey.
I WANT IN!
PROVEN STRATEGIES
GROUP COACHING & 1:1 SUPPORT
A LOVING & SUPPORTIVE SISTERHOOD
LIFETIME ACCESS
TO MATERIAL
Meet Cato who went:
"Before this, I was in a place where I felt very frustrated and angry at men. I had to heal many layers of the father wound of not feeling worthy and constantly seeking external validation. I was essentially perpetuating the same pattern over and over again until I finally decided, "I'm done!"
That's when I signed up for this program. It provided me with the tools, awareness, implementation, accountability, and commitment to fully uplevel and heal the parts of me that I hadn’t healed and integrated.
As a result, I was able to meet my king. And now, we’re pregnant! We are waiting for our new baby to arrive, and it’s all because of this program. Because I said "yes" to upleveling, taking ownership, and being really honest about examining my own issues.
It made me realize that I am the common denominator in all these stories.
I’m so glad I said yes to this and invested in myself, which is a declaration that I’m ready to uplevel. And I feel that the external reality is a testament to the internal work I’ve been doing, and it’s all because of this program."
"I met my man two months after I started the program, and after another two months of dating, we officially became a couple!"Â
I would like to express my deep gratitude for the program!
 I met my man two months after I started the program, and after another two months of dating, we officially became a couple.
For the first time in my life, I met someone with whom I feel calm and at peace, yet it doesn’t feel boring.
A relationship where I can be myself, where I receive support, gratitude, and care.
I see how your course has changed my understanding and perspective on healthy relationships.
Your program helped dispel many myths about what relationships should be like.
I really thought that healthy relationships were boring, that butterflies in the stomach should come first.
Omg, so many misunderstandings that seem so silly to me now!
The education you provide is so important. I realized a lot about myself and my traumas.
I didn’t expect to have such big results.
I looked at my relationship with my father from a different perspective and healed this part of my psyche.
I was able to work deeply on my inner child inner child.
I learned what kind of partner I want and what kind of relationship I truly seek.
Everything I wrote down , I received.
Your program is something special, and it can help so many people all over the world. 🌎🙏🏼
- Yulia
"I am now in a safe & nourishing relationship for the first time in almost 10 years!"Â
“And it has all of the things that I have always wanted that I never thought was possible for me before this program.
And all of this has happened in just 3 months since the program!
I feel seen and heard, I know how to make him feel seen and heard and we’re both happy, relaxed, in love and committed. It feels amazing.
I am so so grateful for the work we did inside this program. It’s been such an amazing experience.
- BETHANYÂ D
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"I'm almost 5 months into the most beautiful, wild, fun, sexy, honest, limitless, and loving relationship!”
After years of giving too much in relationships, of struggling to set boundaries and not knowing how to put myself first, I felt fearful of starting again incase I ended up in the same situation.
This program was such a supportive container within which I learned about slow dating and getting clear on my desires. I found the courage to put myself out there again, to give love and myself another chance!
Now I’m almost 5 months into the most beautiful, wild, fun, sexy, honest, limitless, loving relationship.. full of tears, healing, laughter and all the things.. all of me is welcome! I am bursting with confidence and I am living and loving my life.
 - GRACE C
BY THE END,
YOU'LL BE ABLE TO:
DATE WITH CONFIDENCE
ATTRACT YOUR DREAM PARTNER
EMBODY YOUR FEMININITY
COMMUNICATE WITH EASE
HAVE SKILLS TO CREATEÂ A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
HI! WERE MATT & KELLEY, YOUR COACHES & MENTORS.Â
We're here to help you have the relationship of your dreams.
Relationships have not always been easy for either of us. Before meeting each other, we were stuck in unhealthy cycles & wondering how to have the love we really wanted.
Our individual struggles led us to seek guidance from coaches, and try just about every healing modality on the face of the planet...
Through that process, we discovered what worked & what didn't. We healed from the past, learned how to communicate in a healthy way, how to date, & how to embody our core masculine and feminine essence.
We each became coaches to teach others what we'd learned so that they could also break toxic patterns and live a life they loved.
This was all before we even met each other.
In November of 2020, an Instagram DM between the two of us became a first date, which a few months later turned into a relationship, & eventually - led to us getting married and becoming parents.
We have a vision to help millions of men and women have healthy, thriving, loving relationships through our programs and content.
We're so excited to speak with you soon if Frequency of Love feels in alignment with where you're at.Â
We'd feel honored to help you have the relationship of your dreams.
"I'm a Clinical Psychologist and I always had this belief that coaching was BS - and that's a false belief!"Â
Whatever your difficulties are: emotional, time, money, language - go for it!
- AMINA, Clinical Psychologist
"This program gave me the foundation and confidence to date!"
I never dated before and I held myself back so much. IÂ had no idea how to even start. But this program gave me foundation and confidence to date!
- ARIANA, USA
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“The group environment made me nervous at the start but after just one week I was so impressed with the beautiful personalities who shared a similar interest in growing and healing. You really feel so understood and comfortable with the group. I am a new woman because of this course,"
"LIFE CHANGING EXPERIENCE! Before beginning the program I had all the symptoms of a text book anxious attachment. I was attracting similar partners with a different face every few months, my boundaries were all over the place with friends, family, and work and I was so uncomfortable with not having some kind of male attention. This program has restructured how I think, I have gained so much self-worth, set some strong boundaries with people around me, dug deep into my shadow and I finally am super comfortable with being truly alone (this is a big win as I have never been truly single my whole adult life. I am no longer seeking outside validation from others to feel worthy of love. I would and have recommended this program to everyone I know.”Â
- AMY, Australia
This program is for you if...
You know in your heart you are meant for marriage and family, and you are ready to prepare for the man and the love story God has for you.
You are tired of repeating the same patterns in dating and want to finally heal from the past so you can move forward with confidence and peace.
You want both guidance and accountability — not just another book or podcast — but mentors who will walk beside you step by step.
ou long to be surrounded by like-minded women who are also serious about marriage, faith, and growth, so you don’t feel alone on this journey.
You are ready to put in the time and effort to learn, grow, and prepare for the relationship and family you’ve been praying for.
This program is not for you if...
You don't have 3 hours per week to commit to educating yourself on dating and relationships.
You want to casually date for fun and are not serious about preparing for marriage and family.
You are unwilling to take responsibility for your patterns or keep making excuses for why love is not working out.
You're not ready lean in, get uncomfortable (at times), and try things you've never tried before to have something you've never had before
You are closed off to guidance and prefer to keep doing things the way you’ve always done them, even if it hasn’t worked.
⇢ WE WANT YOU TO BE OUR NEXT SUCCESS STORY â‡
From not believing she was going to meet anybody to now being in her dream relationshipÂ
I knew that I had a lot of childhood trauma that I needed to deal with, and I wanted to feel positive about dating again.
I didn’t believe I was going to find anybody, and I knew I needed to do some deep work.
Then I found this amazing coaching program with Matt & Kelley.
Their whole program is so good. I did therapy on the side, but this is so different.
Getting coached is life-changing!
I really worked on healing past traumas that are affecting how I date today.
I then met somebody, we started dating, and I am now in a relationship with him.

The proof is in the pudding! I really recommend this course
- RUGI, United States
"I finally feel hope and excitement about the future!"
Before starting this program, I felt stuck from coming out of a 14-year relationship/marriage and I didn't know how to finally release it, properly heal and move on.
In this program I learned so much about myself, about what I want and what I don't want in a man/relationship; how to create, set and follow through with boundaries; how to heal my inner child and forgive myself for all that had happened in the past; and to finally feel hope and excitement about the future!
-Â CSILLA, Australia
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"I thought I have already been doing a lot of work on myself, I doubt I will learn anything life-changing in this program"Â
WELL the whole course has been life changing. I never ever expected to see changes within myself so fast.
My relationship with myself has gotten so much better and it’s really beautiful to see & feel. The supportive community in the program has felt a bit like family and I was so excited for every call. This was definitely the best thing I have done for myself.
- AMINA, Ukraine
"It is worth every penny. It is worth the financial risk."
The main concern for me is always financial. Knowing that it's a risk and maybe I'm not in the best spot financially to do it.
The rewards are just astounding. It's worth it.
You don't know until do it. You realize that it is worth every penny. It is worth taking the financial risk.
- Erica Evans
Meet Mimi who went...
“When I joined, I was still hung up on a guy that I had had a situation-ship with. Through this program, I discovered my values and what I didn’t want to compromise on in a relationship, and that helped me to move on and to become clear on what I wanted.
And then when I used the framework that is taught around dating, a week later I was in a relationship because I had the courage and the confidence to be like: this is what I want and I’m not willing to compromise on these things.”    Â
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"What price would you put on finding the love of your life?"
"When I first saw how much this class was, I wasn't sure I could afford it, but when I re-framed it lin my mind as 'what price would you put on finding the love of your life?' then it was really a no-brainer.
Sure enough, within DAYS of submitting full payment, before the first class even started, I matched with a man on Tinder who was EXACTLY the man I've been looking for, and who I am now in a committed and deeply loving relationship with.
Being in this course has truly set me up for success - taking responsibility for my stuff, staying open in my communication with him (even when it feels vulnerable and scary), and really learning to lean into my feminine and fully receive his love and affection."Â
 - BONNIE C
Meet Jonnemarie who went...
"This is the healthiest & most fulfilling relationship I've ever been a part of. I feel so safe, seen, heard,  respected, special, loved, and wanted. We are now engaged and I still wake up every day with overflowing love, gratitude, and happiness!"
When I first joined, I was stuck in a cycle of unhealthy attachments and patterns in my relationships that had spanned over a decade. I found myself jumping from one guy to another, constantly seeking emotional connections from men who I knew weren't the right matches for me.
This program was truly life-changing and an invaluable investment. The content and coaching was so valuable. I was already having huge breakthroughs on the first call.
Matt and Kelley radiated kindness, wisdom, and encouragement. Their support and guidance, along with the camaraderie with other group members, created a safe and empowering space that was so important for me to be able to fully commit to vulnerability and healing. I felt truly understood and motivated knowing that I wasn't on this journey alone.
The knowledge, strength, and confidence I had cultivated through this program continued to guide me and one year later, I met my absolute dream partner.
We are now engaged and I still wake up every day with overflowing love, gratitude, and happiness!
He is the love of my life, but the best part is that even if something crazy happened and our relationship ended up not working out, I know deep down that I would be okay because I've learned how to heal and I have truly transformed my relationship with MYSELF.
frequently askedÂ
QUESTIONS
When is the start date of the program?
What are the times and days of the calls?
What makes students who have taken this course, and the testimonials I have seen, so successful?
If I’m newly single and still healing, is this program still good for me?
Is this program only for single people?
I’m not the best at communicating, will this course help me be a better communicator?
How much time will it take to complete this program?
Will this program show me how to meet an ideal partner with dating apps?
I HATE dating apps, will I learn how to meet men in real life?
Is this program only for women?
I have ZERO dating experience, do I need to have experience to join this program?
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