For Dating For Love members
As a Dating For Love member, you can book a complimentary Love Life Audit with our team. In one video call, we'll find the pattern that's been holding you back and give you a clear plan, so you're not doing this alone.
"I am now in a safe and nourishing relationship for the first time in almost 10 years. All of this happened in just 3 months."
Only 5 of 20 spots left this month
The healthiest, most fulfilling relationship I've ever been a part of.
You have the course. Here's what it can't do.
Does this sound like you?
And yet you keep ending up in the same place.
The men you like aren't interested, and the men who are interested, you don't feel anything for. The ones who seem promising turn out to be emotionally unavailable. Apps feel like a second job.
Or maybe you've stopped dating altogether. It's been months, maybe years, since a real date. You've poured yourself into work, and you're not even sure where to start anymore.
And somewhere along the way, you started wondering if you've missed your window.
You don't want "someone." You want an equally yoked husband who leads in faith, to build a home and raise a family with.
You've been told to "just wait on God's timing." You have been waiting. And you're starting to wonder if He's inviting you to do something different.
Why it hasn't worked yet
It isn't your age, and the good men aren't gone. Most help out there only fixes one side of the problem, so you stall out or end up back where you started.
Therapy and inner work alone
You understand your attachment style. You still don't know where to meet him, how to pace things, or when to walk away.
Dating tips and apps alone
Better photos bring more matches. The old wounds still pick the same kind of man, and you're back at square one.
Dating For Marriage
You heal what's been choosing for you, then follow a step-by-step formula to meet and date men who are ready for marriage.
Therapists, psychologists and coaches join Dating For Marriage too. Understanding your attachment style isn't the same as changing it.
Our method
Hoping isn't a plan. The most important things in life rarely happen by accident, and your marriage is one of them.
Five steps, built from the ground up. Most women try to start at "Date," which is why the same patterns keep coming back. Tap each step to see what changes.
Start here: Heal
Tap a step to explore it
Inside the program, each step is a module of video lessons, exercises and live coaching.
How we walk with you
Information alone doesn't change your love life. These three things do.
β Grounded in biblical values, built on practical, proven relationship strategy. You'll get real tools, not just "pray harder."
Pillar 1
The Formula To Finding Love, step by step, plus a personal action plan so you know exactly what to focus on first.
Pillar 2
Live group coaching every week and personal guidance from a dating coach, so you're never guessing on your own.
Pillar 3
A sisterhood of women who share your faith, and coaches who tell you what you need to hear, not just what you want to hear.
Your complimentary Love Life Audit
Your complimentary Love Life Audit is with
Matt, personally
Co-founder of Dating For Marriage, husband and dad.
Together, we'll look at three things:
An honest look at your dating life, your patterns, and what's been happening so far.
The relationship, marriage and family you're praying for.
The hidden beliefs and patterns standing between you and the man you'll marry.
Worst case scenario
You leave with clarity on what's been holding you back, and exactly what you need to do to move forward.
Best case scenario
You leave with a plan, and you change your love life by working with us.
Either way, you get value.No pressure, no gimmicks.
"Will I be pressured?"
"Thank you again very much for your time today, and for the class yesterday. I've already received a great deal of value from both, and the discovery call was one of the calmest, most helpful discovery calls I've ever been through with a coach."
Real results
"I was stuck in a cycle of unhealthy attachments that had spanned over a decade, jumping from one guy to another. I was already having huge breakthroughs on the first call. The knowledge, strength and confidence I built kept guiding me, and I met my absolute dream partner. I feel so safe, seen, heard, respected and loved."
Jonnemarie
"When I joined, I was still hung up on a guy I'd had a situationship with. I discovered my values and what I wouldn't compromise on, and that helped me move on. When I used the dating framework, shortly after, I was in a relationship."
Mimi
"When I first saw the price, I wasn't sure I could afford it. When I reframed it as 'what price would you put on finding the love of your life?' it was a no-brainer. It set me up for success: taking responsibility for my stuff, staying open with him even when it felt vulnerable, and learning to fully receive love."
Bonnie C.
"I haven't been in a relationship in 19 years. I hadn't learned how to date well or do it in a biblical way. After just a few months of learning so much from the recordings and the modules, I met this man. He prayed for me, sent me scripture verses to meditate on, checked on me every day, and was just truly incredible. We are now exclusive."
Jenn M.
"To be honest, I was getting close to accepting that I would not be able to share the win of finding my partner any time soon. Then on one of the coaching calls, another member shared how letting go of some of her preferences helped her meet her partner. So I made slightly different choices when swiping on Bumble, and this is how we matched. He is such an amazing man, he cares for me in a way I never thought was possible, and we are grateful for each other every day. I wouldn't be here today without all of you."
Dating For Marriage member
"I'm a clinical psychologist and I always believed coaching was BS. That was a false belief."
"I never dated before and I held myself back so much. I had no idea how to even start. This program gave me the foundation and confidence to date!"
"I didn't believe I was going to find anybody. I did therapy on the side, but this is so different. I met somebody, and I am now in a relationship with him."
"I am now in a safe and nourishing relationship for the first time in almost 10 years. All of this has happened in just 3 months."
"I'm almost 5 months into the most beautiful, fun, honest and loving relationship. I learned about slow dating and got clear on my desires."
"I was attracting similar partners with a different face every few months. This program restructured how I think. I'm no longer seeking outside validation to feel worthy of love."
"I felt stuck coming out of a 14-year relationship and marriage. I finally feel hope and excitement about the future."
"The main concern for me was financial. The rewards are just astounding. It is worth every penny."
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How to join
Step 1 Β· 2 minutes
Answer a few quick questions about where you are in your love life.
Love Life Audit with MattStep 2 Β· Complimentary
A personal call with Matt to find the patterns keeping you stuck and show you what to do next.
Step 3 Β· Only if aligned
If we're confident we can help, we'll walk you through your options. Women join every week.
We have a few ways to support you, depending on your situation and goals. Recommending one before we understand your love life would be a disservice. On your audit, and only if we're confident we can help, we'll walk you through the options. If none fit, no worries. We part as friends. Payment plans are available.
Is this for you?
"I've done all the work. Why isn't it working?"
You've invested in therapy and yourself. You just need the strategy and support to turn that into a relationship.
"I'm starting over."
You want to heal properly this time, so the next relationship is the right one.
"I'm dating, but nothing sticks."
You're meeting men, but it fizzles after a few dates or never turns into commitment.
"I don't know where to start."
You want the confidence, healing and practical steps to finally put yourself out there.
Your coaches
Relationships weren't always easy for either of us. Before we met, we were both stuck in unhealthy cycles, wondering how to have the love we really wanted. We worked with coaches, tried just about every healing approach out there, and learned what actually works.
In November 2020, an Instagram DM between us turned into a first date. A few months later it became a relationship, and today we're married and parents.
As a married Christian couple, we coach from both sides: Kelley brings the feminine perspective, and Matt shows you how a masculine, marriage-minded man actually thinks. We've worked with over 10,000 clients, and we'd be honored to help you build the marriage you've been praying for.
Common thoughts
Many women in our community wrestled with this. Trusting God and taking faithful action go together. You'd hire a coach for your health or your career. Getting wise counsel for the most important relationship of your life is stewardship, not doubt.
Almost every woman we work with felt that way at first. Nobody taught us how to date for marriage. Asking for guidance is what high-achieving women do in every other area of life. Love deserves the same.
It takes about 3 hours a week, and calls have replays. Most women find it saves time, because they stop spending evenings on dates and apps that go nowhere.
Healing is step one of the formula, so you'll do it inside the program with support. Many women join right after a breakup or divorce. You don't have to be "finished" to start.
No. Most women we work with are in their 30s and 40s, and we've seen women find love at every age. Colleen found love again after a 22-year marriage ended. Bonnie was afraid she'd missed her chance, and today she's married with a baby on the way.
Both. Everything is grounded in biblical values, and it's built on practical, proven relationship strategy: where to meet men, how to date with discernment, how to communicate and how to build a relationship that lasts. You'll get real tools, not just "pray harder."
It depends on the level of support that's right for you, so we go over it on your Love Life Audit. Payment plans are available.
No. Your results depend on showing up and doing the work, which is why we talk first. We only invite women we're confident we can help.
You start the week you join. There are two group calls a week, set for different time zones, and replays are available.
Yes. Many of our clients start with zero dating experience. Tina had never been in a relationship before she found the love of her life.
We ask you to be open to them, because they're one of the best ways to meet marriage-minded men today. You'll also learn how to meet men in real life. We'll make them feel far less draining.
Another month of waiting is another month of the same patterns. This is what changes inside Dating For Marriage:
More time and more information won't create a different result. The right strategy, coaching and accountability can.
Not ready to work with us yet? Join our free workshop first β
Hear it from them
Press play on any of these to hear what changed for them.
"That was the best investment I've ever made in my life. I met my husband because of it."
Jonnemarie
"I just didn't believe that I was going to find anybody."
Rugi
"Whatever your difficulties are: emotional, time, money, language - go for it!"
Amina, Clinical Psychologist
"The rewards are just astounding. It's worth it."
Erica E.
Straight from our members
We asked the women inside Dating For Marriage what they'd say to someone who isn't sure yet. Here's what they told us, in their own words. Names and faces are hidden to protect their privacy.
Get started today before this once in a lifetime opportunity expires.
